We recently had the chance to connect with Ingrid & John Sullivan and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Ingrid & John, thank you for taking the time to reflect back on your journey with us. I think our readers are in for a real treat. There is so much we can all learn from each other and so thank you again for opening up with us. Let’s get into it: What are you most proud of building — that nobody sees?
What we’re most proud of isn’t a program, a class, or even a successful real estate transaction. It’s the sense of safety and trust we’ve built for older adults and their families over the years. While most people only see the surface — a home going on the market or a seminar being taught — behind the scenes we’ve spent years creating a framework that makes one of life’s hardest transitions feel manageable, dignified, and even hopeful. Through a trusted network of caring professionals, systems that simplify overwhelming decisions, and an educational community that empowers seniors long before they ever need to move, we’ve built a foundation that isn’t flashy, but is the very heart of what we do — quietly supporting people through moments that can shape the rest of their lives.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
We’re Ingrid and John Sullivan, co-founders of Senior Downsizing Experts, a real estate and move-management team dedicated to helping older adults and their families navigate the emotional and logistical journey of downsizing. Our work is rooted in education, compassion, and advocacy. Through our Smart Senior Series seminars, workshops, and community partnerships, we help seniors make informed decisions about housing, health, aging, and planning long before a move is necessary. When the time does come, we guide families through every step — from preparing a home, to coordinating vendors, to supporting aging parents and adult children alike. What makes our work unique is that it’s never been about selling houses. It’s about helping people move forward with clarity, dignity, and peace of mind.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What’s a moment that really shaped how you see the world?
A moment that shaped our perspective happened years ago when we were helping an older family member who was struggling with a sudden health issue. We watched the overwhelm, fear, and disorientation that came with having to make fast decisions about care, finances, housing, and family responsibilities — all at once.
We realized then that most families aren’t unprepared because they don’t care; they’re unprepared because they’ve never been taught how to plan for aging, and they often don’t know who to trust. That experience opened our eyes to how profoundly a lack of information can affect a person’s quality of life.
It became our driving force: to make sure seniors and their families never feel alone or uninformed during life transitions. That moment changed the course of our work — and ultimately led to the creation of the Smart Senior Series and our entire educational mission.
What did suffering teach you that success never could?
Suffering taught us empathy on a level that no amount of professional success ever could. We’ve walked with families through grief, loss, crises, and the guilt and conflict that often come with caring for aging loved ones. We’ve seen seniors forced to move before they were ready, families scrambling after a medical emergency, and adult children trying to honor their parents’ wishes while balancing their own lives. These moments taught us that people don’t need perfection from us — they need presence. They need someone who listens without judgment, someone who can bring calm to chaos, and someone who can hold space for the emotional weight they’re carrying. Success brings confidence, but suffering brings humility. And that humility keeps us grounded in what matters most: serving people, not transactions.
Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
One of the biggest lies in real estate is that selling a home is primarily a financial decision. For older adults, it’s rarely about the house — it’s about identity, memories, fear of change, and deeply personal “last chapter” decisions. Another lie is that seniors simply need a listing agent. What they really need is a guide — someone who understands late-life transitions, aging, family dynamics, and the emotional complexity of letting go. We also believe the industry is wrong when it prioritizes speed over understanding. Downsizing isn’t “just another move.” It’s a major life event that deserves education, patience, and a comprehensive support system. Our work pushes back against those misconceptions. We start with education, not sales. We believe that informed seniors make better decisions, and our job is to empower them long before they’re ready to downsize.
Okay, so before we go, let’s tackle one more area. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
We hope people say that we made their lives easier during one of the most overwhelming times they ever faced. That we listened. That we showed up. That we treated them — or their parents — with kindness and respect. We hope people remember that we built a community of education and support that will continue long after we’re gone, and that we helped shift the conversation around aging from something people fear to something people can prepare for with confidence. And most of all, we hope the story is simple: “They genuinely cared about people — and it showed.”
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