Today we’d like to introduce you to C.R. Burnett
Hi C.R., so excited to have you on the platform. So before we get into questions about your work-life, maybe you can bring our readers up to speed on your story and how you got to where you are today?
I began writing at a very young age—just three years old—when I first mimicked the words in the letters my father sent to my mother. This early exposure to the written word sparked a lifelong passion for writing. I was inspired to write Ghost Protocol: Dating in the New Millennium based on my own experiences and those of others as we navigated the complexities of attempting to form genuine relationships in a digital age. As online dating became the new norm, I witnessed firsthand the challenges and often awkward moments that come with trying to connect with others in this evolving landscape. This book aims to explore those experiences and offer insight into finding meaningful connections in a world increasingly defined by technology.
Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
You know, if I had a dollar for every crazy conversation screenshot that I’ve collected over the years, I could probably fund a small indie film about modern dating! I’m saving those screenshots for the revival of my Woke Girls Don’t Date podcast though. Seriously, it’s astonishing how decorum seems to have taken a back seat in today’s online interactions. While writing has seemed to come easy for me, writing about the raw emotions and growing pains I’ve experienced has not been as easy, especially in my younger years. In high school, I turned to poetry as a way to process my experiences and emotions. In college, during a very challenging time, I was encouraged by a therapist to journal my feelings to get them out of my head. After taking an Intro to Poetry course, I found poetry to be an artful way to express feelings using metaphors, similes, rhyme, and rhythm.
What drove me to write about the perils of modern dating is how vastly different it feels now compared to the 80s and 90s. Back then, dating had a certain simplicity and sincerity that seems lost today. Now, with the internet providing both a shield for people to hide behind and an overwhelming number of options, it feels like many people are reluctant to truly commit, fearing they might miss out on something—or someone—better. It also seems like everyone is afraid of being who they truly are for fear of being either judged or rejected. These paradoxes complicate connections, making the pursuit of anything genuine and meaningful feel much more daunting than I remember from my single days before marriage.
As you know, we’re big fans of you and your work. For our readers who might not be as familiar what can you tell them about what you do?
As a writer and author of “Ghost Protocol: Dating in the New Millennium,” my focus is on helping individuals navigate the complexities of modern relationships with authenticity and clarity. I specialize in guiding people to show up more authentically in their lives, encouraging them to embrace who they are, and communicate openly. In today’s fast-paced digital landscape, genuine connection can often feel elusive, but I believe that by fostering meaningful conversations, we can build deeper, more fulfilling relationships.
What sets me apart is my emphasis on creating a safe space for vulnerability, where readers and clients can explore their own experiences without judgment. I’m passionate about facilitating discussions that empower individuals to express themselves authentically and be fully present in their interactions.
One of my proudest achievements is witnessing the positive impact my work has on others. Whether it’s through my writing or workshops, hearing stories from those who have transformed their relationship experiences and personal connections reinforces my commitment to this mission. By helping others understand that authentic self-expression is key to building meaningful relationships, I strive to inspire a shift toward more intentional and connected living in the new millennium.
Risk taking is a topic that people have widely differing views on – we’d love to hear your thoughts.
When it comes to risk-taking, I have a rather unconventional perspective. For many, the fear of being alone can create immense pressure to engage in relationships, even if they aren’t the right fit. However, I embrace the idea that not everyone feels that way. Personally, I don’t feel lonely; instead, I look forward to traveling the world solo and experiencing life on my own terms.
To me, the greatest risk is not in choosing to be single or not pursuing a relationship. It’s about fully embracing who I am and what I want without succumbing to societal pressures or expectations. The risk I’ve taken is stepping away from the narrative that suggests I need to be in a relationship to validate my worth or happiness.
I’ve taken major risks, such as deciding to embark on solo travel. This choice has allowed me to explore new cultures, meet diverse people, and grow immensely as an individual. If I meet someone along the way who aligns with my journey, that’s wonderful; if not, I’m completely at peace with that.
Ultimately, I believe that risk-taking is about authenticity and following your own path, even when it diverges from conventional norms. It’s this mindset that allows me to navigate life confidently, knowing that the choices I make are true to who I am.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crburnettauthor
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crburnettauthor
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@c.r.burnett
- Other: https://www.tiktok.com/@crburnett_author
