Today we’d like to introduce you to Ella Parlor.
Hi Ella, thanks for sharing your story with us. To start, maybe you can tell our readers some of your backstory.
Raised under the discipline of a US Marine Corps Officer father in sunny Southern California, my journey embodies resilience, discipline, and inclusivity—key pillars that fueled my ascent as a creative Marketing Director for global beverage brands. Renowned for championing multicultural initiatives, my campaigns have been pivotal in amplifying LGBTQIA+, Black, Latinx, and AAPI voices, transforming the beverage industry with authenticity and innovation. My marketing expertise is a delicate balancing act, merging bold creativity with mindful respect for diverse audiences, crafting impactful, buzzworthy campaigns.
My life has also been a testament to overcoming health challenges. Battling multiple cysts, tumors, and surgeries since childhood, I’ve emerged stronger, turning my struggles into a source of inspiration. These experiences profoundly shifted my perspective, leading me to question my life’s purpose and redirect my professional focus.
Today, I’m channeling my extensive marketing insights into transformative coaching and consulting, empowering smaller businesses and individuals with resilience and grit. My multifaceted life, blending work with diverse interests like volunteering, podcasting, and comedy, reflects my commitment to personal growth and community upliftment.
Dallas, Texas, holds a special place in my heart. Its rich cultural tapestry, vibrant culinary scene, and dynamic live music resonate deeply with my energetic spirit. Whether it’s a reflective stroll along the Katy Trail or engaging in the city’s communal vibrancy, Dallas is where I seem to thrive!
The culmination of my experiences and insights is vividly captured in my book, ‘High Tolerance,’ released on Nov 16. It’s not just a book—it’s an inspiring movement, landing on several bestseller lists and resonating with readers worldwide, with a story of empowerment and resilience.
Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall, and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
My life story, marked by overcoming extraordinary health challenges from a young age, is a testament to resilience. Now 34, my journey through numerous cysts, tumors, and surgeries, detailed publicly for the first time, reveals a deep-seated strength. The turning point came in December 2022, with four critical surgeries, including the removal of seven fibroid tumors. This experience, along with a grueling recovery involving three months of physical therapy, sparked a profound introspection about my life’s true purpose.
This epiphany led me to pivot from my career in alcohol marketing to a more fulfilling path as a transformative coach and consultant. Leveraging my expertise, I now empower individuals and small businesses, guiding them through professional and personal transitions with unparalleled resilience and determination.
Beyond my professional life, I am passionately engaged in activities that enrich my soul, including volunteering, podcasting, exploring AI, karaoke at Hideaway on Henderson, and even stand-up comedy. These diverse pursuits reflect my commitment to continuous learning and growth.
The culmination of my journey is captured in my groundbreaking book, ‘High Tolerance,’ which came out in November 2023. This book isn’t just a memoir; it’s a powerful manifesto for resilience, a beacon of hope and empowerment, destined to resonate with readers globally and redefine the narrative of overcoming adversity. ‘High Tolerance’ is more than just a book; it’s a phenomenon that promises to inspire and transform lives.
Thanks for sharing that. So, maybe next, you can tell us a bit more about your business.
As a transformative coach and consultant with a rich corporate background, I bring a unique blend of insight and empathy to high achievers and leaders. My expertise spans business development, leadership, and profitability, honed through extensive corporate experience. More importantly, as a coach, I specialize in personal growth, helping clients break free from feeling ‘stuck’ in both professional and personal spheres.
In 2022, I developed a holistic philosophy called SEFPh, focusing on the simultaneous balance of Spiritual, Emotional, Financial, and Physical health. This approach underscores my belief that success in one area should not compromise another. My goal is to create tools and strategies that lead individuals and teams toward high performance, remarkable achievements, and inner peace.
My journey includes executing advertising campaigns with over $1 billion in revenue and engaging millions. I aim to leverage this experience to guide hundreds, perhaps thousands, toward self-discovery and limitless opportunities. My approach is rooted in sharing wisdom, experiences, and support, inspiring resilience and integrity in times of change and transition.
What sets me apart?
- Deep Connection: My innate ability to connect deeply with others allows me to understand their life stories, fears, and secrets quickly. In a world where digital disconnection is rampant, I aspire to foster real, confident connections.
- Resilient Fighter: Viewing challenges as opportunities, I embody resilience, encouraging others to see adversity as a chance for growth and evolution. My own health struggles have fortified these values, providing me with the empathy and experience necessary for guiding others through transformation.
- Balanced Outlook: I combine a Winnie The Pooh spirit with an Eeyore exterior, consistently finding silver linings in challenges. This balance helps me guide others through hardships with a positive outlook.
My martial arts background, marked by competition wins, further symbolizes my approach: strategic, resilient, and always ready to turn challenges into triumphs. This journey has shaped my brand and values, demonstrating the power of resilience, abundance, and fulfillment in crafting a meaningful life.
Can you talk to us a bit about happiness and what makes you happy?
After the year I had, not having to wear a diaper makes me happy! No one told me that a diaper would be on the long list of setbacks I would endure after my surgeries. If you’re not wearing a diaper today, you’re doing alright. I have everything I need to be happy: a pulse, a full belly, people on this planet who care about me, a safe place to lay my head at night, and the ability to get out of bed in the morning. I know firsthand we all have capabilities that someone right now, somewhere in the world is begging and praying to have.
The first sip of coffee in the morning, the warmth of the sun on my face while I breathe fresh air makes me happy.
Taking the time to help and encourage someone each day makes me the *most* happy. Imagine what a beautiful world we would live in if we all made it our mission to compliment, help, reach out to, and just love on 1 ‘stranger’ every single day? I believe this is possible, and I am working overtime to be the positive change in this world.
Of course, I wouldn’t be Ella Parlor if I didn’t mention that transforming ideas into successful business strategies really makes me happy! Every time a client or I reach a new goal that seemed like a stretch, I’m reminded of why I adore this challenging world of business.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://ellayourbella.com/hightolerance/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellayourbella/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellayourbella
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellaparlor/
- Other: https://www.tiktok.com/@ellayourbella
