Kyla Kemp shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Kyla, so good to connect and we’re excited to share your story and insights with our audience. There’s a ton to learn from your story, but let’s start with a warm up before we get into the heart of the interview. What battle are you avoiding?
The battle I’m avoiding right now is balancing my full-time job, my part-time personal assistant job, and creating content. I’ll be honest.. content creation is usually the first thing I push off when I’m tired, because my full-time job takes so much of my energy. I’ve caught myself procrastinating, but I’ve also had moments where I powered through and created even when I was exhausted, and that reminded me that if I truly want to be a content creator, I can’t wait for the “perfect” moment.
What’s interesting is that my part-time PA job actually energizes me the most. It sparks my creativity and reminds me why I love doing this type of work. On the flip side, my full-time job, while draining, is something I’m grateful for and know I need right now. The real “battle” isn’t choosing one over the other, but learning how to juggle them without burning out.
Ultimately, I see myself being a full-time personal assistant and content creator. For now, I’m still figuring out that balance, but I think a lot of people can relate to trying to chase a dream while managing responsibilities. It’s not easy, but I’m determined to keep going and build the life I want.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Hi! I’m Kyla Kemp, a fashion, lifestyle, and beauty content creator based in Dallas,TX. I like to think of my brand, Slice of Kyla, as a mix of style, creativity, and everyday life. I share not just the polished moments, but the real ones too. Outside of content creation, I also work full-time in sales and part-time as a personal assistant for an influencer, which gives me a behind-the-scenes look at this industry while also fueling my creativity.
What makes my journey unique is that I’m building my brand while juggling a busy schedule, which pushes me to stay creative in unexpected ways. Right now, I’m working on expanding my digital presence through YouTube, Instagram, and even TikTok. My goal is to inspire others to embrace who they are, stay consistent with their passions, and see that even with a “9-to-5 life,” you can still chase big creative dreams.
Appreciate your sharing that. Let’s talk about your life, growing up and some of topics and learnings around that. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
As a child, I used to believe that success meant following a specific path like going to school, getting a good job, and sticking to the plan. I thought creativity was something you did for fun, not something you could actually build a life around. But as I got older and started creating content, I realized how much I light up when I’m doing something creative.
Now I don’t see creativity as just a hobby. It’s a part of who I am. I’ve learned that you don’t have to wait for the right time or a certain level of permission to start doing what you love. You can create your own version of success, even if it looks different from what you imagined growing up.
What did suffering teach you that success never could?
Suffering taught me things that success never could. When I think of suffering, I think of emotional burnout and self-doubt, those moments when you realize that no one can really save you except yourself. People can encourage you or tell you what to do, but at the end of the day, you have to want to keep going.
It taught me that success is made, not given, and that the effort you give is often the effort you get back, even if it doesn’t always feel balanced. It also made me more grateful for where I am now and helped me build a stronger sense of self-worth.
There were so many times in my life when I was struggling so much that it all felt like one long moment. At the time, I couldn’t imagine getting past it, but I did. That taught me that nothing is as big as it feels when you’re in it. You just have to keep moving forward. My struggles have built my resilience, confidence, and belief in myself in a way that success never could.
Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
One of the biggest lies the content creation industry tells itself is that all you have to do is start posting and everything will fall into place. I’ve seen so many creators who have already made it say that, but in reality, it’s not that simple. Once brand deals start coming in, it becomes less about posting when you want to and more about posting because you have to. It turns into a real job, and sometimes you get so busy that you just want to relax and have a break.
I used to believe it was easy too. Everyone says to just be consistent, but if your content isn’t providing real value or connecting with people, consistency alone won’t save it. That realization helped me shift my focus toward creating with purpose, not just posting to keep up.
And just like any industry, not everything is meant for everyone. People often say there’s room for everyone, but the truth is that not everyone can handle or enjoy the same type of work. Sometimes it’s not about fitting into the space, but finding the space that truly fits you.
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
If I had 10 years left, I would stop overthinking every move and doubting myself. I know what I want, but I often get stuck trying to figure out the perfect path to get there, and in the process, I end up standing still. I’ve realized that even small steps forward matter more than waiting for the “right” moment.
I would spend more time learning, creating, and exploring life. The times I’ve felt most alive were when I wasn’t tied down by survival or obligation, when I could just create for the love of it. I used to dream of being a lawyer, but over time I found my heart in art. I even went to school for it, but I put that dream aside because it didn’t pay the bills. Looking back, I think a part of me dimmed when I stopped creating. If I had 10 years left, I’d spend them bringing that spark back.
I’d stop waiting for things to be perfect. The perfect moment, the perfect video, the perfect feeling. I’d just show up as myself, create from the heart, and live fully in the time I have.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sliceofkyla?igsh=MTNkNjF4aWZqY3hmOA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
- Youtube: https://youtube.com/@sliceofkyla?si=Xz-yz3fbiCH5pFWv
- Other: Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@sliceofkyla
