We recently had the chance to connect with Melva Williams and have shared our conversation below.
Good morning Melva, we’re so happy to have you here with us and we’d love to explore your story and how you think about life and legacy and so much more. So let’s start with a question we often ask: What are you being called to do now, that you may have been afraid of before?
I’m being called to plan my transition for my career change from Hairstylist/Certified Hair-Loss Practitioner to Victim Advocate for the Juvenile Justice System. To be a voice for those who are unable to speak for themselves.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m Melva Williams, The Healthy Hair Specialist. I’m just a country girl living in the city. I’m remarried after 50 to my King, Daniel Williams. We’re traveling and enjoying our family. After a significant loss of my youngest daughter this year, love has found me again and brought me joy.
For over 35 years, I have helped women understand how their hair issues and medical issues are related. Anything that affects your bloodstream also affects your hair,
Our hair is an extension of who we are. Sometimes women come in broken and sad. It has been my pleasure to help restore their hair and confidence.
I have mastered my craft! I have done everything I’ve wanted in the Beauty Industry; salon owner, mentor, educator, author, product developer, workshops, fashion shows, etc… Now I would like to become a consultant, helping those entering the industry or may not be growing.
Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What part of you has served its purpose and must now be released?
I learned early on that I was a bridge to help others find their niche, in whatever industry they were in. To help others build their brand, as I had done. To share the knowledge of the Business of Beauty, how to move from student to business owner.
I learned not take it personal when they moved on, whether they acknowledged the help or not. That I didn’t need a thank you because it was my purpose. I have completed this task and I’m ready for what’s next.
What did suffering teach you that success never could?
That life and family is a precious gift. That I spent so much time building my brand, becoming a 6-figure stylist, I missed out on family and life.
I lost my youngest daughter this year. We were close, we talked everyday but there are so many things we never did. Losing her made me realize that I can’t control anything. But what I can do is have balance in my life.
So suffering taught me that success is being able to enjoy the life you’ve built with family and friends. True success is being able to enjoy the fruits of your labor with those you love.
Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
Family! I am the matriarch of my family and I take it very seriously. I strive to be an example of integrity, strength, and love.
We do everything together. We travel, family outings, dinners, and just bonding. They are my village, they make me proud. Family over everything, but God!
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: What do you think people will most misunderstand about your legacy?
That I was a giver. I have given back to my family, clients, and community my entire life. Whether it’s been clothing drives, feeding the homeless, working in shelters, or doing free salon services. My legacy is being a light to those that may be experiencing darkness. Helping others has always been a part of who I am. When I pass on, my final request is to donate my organs. I want to leave here how I’ve lived, that’s giving back..
Contact Info:
- Website: https://melvawilliams.styleseat.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehealthyhairspecialist
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrsMelva
- Yelp: https://yelp.to/y5wgxVm28d
- Other: https://www.TikTok.com/melj_thestylist_tx
Image Credits
I could not have been the person I am today without my grandparents Melvin and Bobbie Reeves, my brother L.H. Reeves, my children, grandchildren, my husband Daniel Williams, and my sisterhood. This is my village. Thank each and every one of you for pouring into me as I poured into you. I love you all.
