Toni Riley shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Toni, it’s always a pleasure to learn from you and your journey. Let’s start with a bit of a warmup: What are you being called to do now, that you may have been afraid of before?
A few years ago, a friend of mine asked me if I would be interested in hosting a podcast with her for her non-profit. I was originally fearful, but knew I wanted to not only help her, but help others in their journey. After publishing a book in 2023, I have felt led to help others in their trials. My friend and I started our podcast and at first, I was losing sleep the nights leading up to recording. But, I found that the more I kept stepping out and saying “yes” in the fear, the more comfortable and less fearful I became. We just finished recording Season 3 of the Call To Purpose Podcast. Neither of us were nervous this time, we slept great the night before and felt comfortable in our own skin knowing it isn’t about us – it’s about helping others.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Toni Riley. I am the owner of Olive Grove Therapy, a Licensed Massage Therapist in Texas, and a Corrective Exercise Specialist dedicated to helping clients heal from within. At Olive Grove, we focus on addressing the root causes of pain and mobility issues through targeted muscle therapy with multiple modalities and protocols, empowering individuals to improve their health and well-being. An accomplished author, I wrote The Bright Side of Broken, where I share how the tragedies in my life and explore the positive outcomes in guidance to inspire readers to find their own silver linings. As co-host of the Call to Purpose podcast, I guide listeners through crossroads, helping them discover their purpose and navigate life’s transitions. My desire in healing and personal growth is my true passion..
Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What was your earliest memory of feeling powerful?
The earliest memory I have of feeling powerful was in the fourth grade. In physical education class, we all had to run on the track. I remember enjoying the coach teaching us how to run properly. Jumping a few years later in high school, we had to run a mile. I remember being ahead of everyone, except for one other girl who I remember was on the cross country team. Everyone was way behind us and it was then that I realized I had a gift of endurance. It gave me a glimpse of potential for my future, that I would later discover.
Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
Three days after my son turned eight years old, my world shattered with the sudden loss of my husband and son’s father. I felt utterly lost and alone, grappling with grief in a void of support. With no family nearby and only a few friends who, though well-meaning, struggled to help, I teetered on the edge of giving up. Yet, I knew I had to persevere for my son, to show him that life’s hardships, however daunting, can be faced with resilience. My faith in God and my love for my son became my anchors, giving me the strength to move forward. Reflecting now, I’m grateful for both the good and the painful moments in my life—they’ve shaped me into someone who thrives on helping others navigate their challenges and become their best selves. This and other tragedies in my life inspired me to write The Bright Side of Broken, a book to guide others toward finding hope and purpose in their struggles.
Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? What’s a belief you used to hold tightly but now think was naive or wrong?
I once held a naive belief that love and care for someone were enough to ensure everything would work out. I didn’t realize then that people aren’t always what they seem. I used to assume the best in everyone, giving them the benefit of the doubt. Through painful lessons, I learned that not everyone deserves that trust. I’ve since learned to heed my own discernment, which I once ignored. This has given me a sharper sense of who to trust and who to walk away from.
Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. What do you understand deeply that most people don’t?
Life is sacred, a truth I hold close after losing my parents, spouse, and others too soon. Those losses taught me that we’re only guaranteed today—tomorrow is never promised. It’s easy to nod at this idea; however, some of us don’t truly realize it until we’ve lost people who were the closest to us. What will you do with this moment? Will you hold onto anger for those who’ve wronged you? Will you reach out to lift someone up? Will you let pride block your path? If tomorrow were your last day, who would you call? Don’t wait—reach out today. You won’t regret it.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.olivegrovetherapy.com
- Instagram: @olivegrovetherapy, @thebrightsideofbroken
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonibiggerstaff262/
- Twitter: https://x.com/toniruns262
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/olivegrovetherapy, https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091380814328,
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC09agGu8eBsl7u566r8coTA
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