Today we’d like to introduce you to Valarie Gray.
Hi Valarie, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
My journey began in 2017 with the release of an unimaginable non-fiction story. At the time, I thought that would be the end—but God had other plans. He placed a burning desire in me to share this story of the heart in a new, powerful way—one that audiences could experience up close and personal. Through much prayer and BIG faith, I co-wrote the book into a stage play production, complete with an original theme song titled “Our Innocence.”
Innocence Before Deception premiered at the Plaza Garland Theater with two powerful performances on April 26, 2025. This was more than just a play—it was a heartfelt voice for those who have endured silent pain. It offered the audience a powerful glimpse into how a traumatic journey at a young age does not have to define one’s future.
As a woman of crazy faith, bringing this story from the book to the stage is far from the ending. I’m currently working with The Pendleton Studios and other partners behind the scenes to introduce Innocence Before Deception to even more platforms. The journey continues—and it’s only getting bigger.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
This journey has been anything but smooth. It came with unexpected challenges—some personal, some professional—and my faith and perseverance were tested every step of the way.
With no formal background in theater production, I stepped into unfamiliar territory, guided by nothing but passion, purpose, and crazy faith. It’s been a journey marked by risk, resilience, and revelation. Every step has been about honoring the truth, educating others, and opening doors of healing.
I’m not here today by chance. I’m here by the grace and mercy of God—and with the unwavering support of my loving husband, Derrice.
My biggest struggle? Walking into a space where I had always been on the outside looking in. Producing a stage play without any theater background meant learning everything on the fly—budgeting, casting, directing, promoting—all while staying true to the heart of the story.
Financially, there were tight moments doing it all solo. It’s hard getting people to believe in your vision when you’re just starting out. But every closed door taught me something, and every small “yes” fueled my determination.
Despite the bumps, I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. The struggles only added depth to the story—and made the victories that much sweeter. There’s nothing like watching an audience respond in real time and receiving such uplifting reviews. People are already asking where the show is premiering next and how they can stay connected to future IBD, LLC projects.
One word: BLESSED.
Can you tell our readers more about what you do and what you think sets you apart from others?
In my professional life, I love being in the nonprofit space—and I’m often heard saying, “I serve,” rather than “I work.” I serve as a Senior Administrative Coordinator at the North Texas Food Bank, supporting multiple departments within our External Affairs Team, including Philanthropy, Foundation Giving, Marketing, and Communications.
My role is deeply rooted in service: I create and improve processes, manage schedules, support campaign and event logistics, and handle a range of administrative responsibilities to keep our mission moving forward. What sets me apart is my kind heart and servant mindset. I lead with the intention to serve alongside anyone—no title, personality, or ego gets in the way of my desire to help others thrive, whether in the workplace or beyond.
One of the things I’m most proud of in life is being able to look back and say, “That little 15-year-old girl did that—and she’s still standing, still living, and sharing her story with joy.” That’s my why. It fuels my passion for service and my compassion for others.
People often tell me, “Valarie, you’re just different.” I take that as a compliment. Growing up with humble beginnings taught me humility, compassion, and the realization that anyone can fall on hard times. That’s why I believe with all my heart: we are here to serve one another.
Do you any memories from childhood that you can share with us?
One of my many favorite childhood memories is growing up in a neighborhood where both sets of my grandparents—and many aunts, uncles, and cousins—lived just steps away. I loved being able to walk from house to house, play with my first cousins, and gather for big family meals at my grandparents’ homes on any given day. That deep sense of togetherness—the closeness, the laughter, the love—is something I truly cherish and deeply miss today.
Contact Info:
- Facebook: Facebook: Innocence Before Deception
