Exploring Life & Business with Ashlyn Willingham of Happy Day Bowtique

Today we’d like to introduce you to Ashlyn Willingham

Hi Ashlyn, we’re thrilled to have a chance to learn your story today. So, before we get into specifics, maybe you can briefly walk us through how you got to where you are today?
It has always been a dream of mine to start something of my own. I never thought I would actually open my own business. When I became a mom, the thought of leaving my daughter to go back to work was heartbreaking. So I quit my 9-5, opened a business with a friend for fun then decided to branch off on my own and turn my business into my career. Now, I am able to stay at home with my 2 kids while making some income, learn new things, be present and turn my dream into reality.

Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The hardest part when I started my business was having no experience or knowledge on how to do it. I was willing to learn and put effort in to start a business from the ground up. I am still learning new skills, tactics and strategies as I go. I have realized that building a business takes a lot of time but knowing that I am doing it on my own makes me very proud and has made me realize I can do anything I set my mind to. I think no matter what you do, you will risk something so you might as well just go for it. Starting a business is a huge risk, especially when you’re the only person running it. Not only is it difficult to make sure you’re getting everything done, it is also difficult financially. There are definitely hard days, days that scare me and days that knock me down. I know I will learn and continue to grow as time goes on, not only as a business but as a person. I know I would regret not starting a business but I would never regret taking a chance and trying. At the end of the day, I’m doing my best and I think that’s what matters most. This is my job but it’s also my passion. It is something that I created and I’m proud of that.

Thanks – so what else should our readers know about Happy Day Bowtique?
I have always loved art and making something handmade. When I had my daughter I was obsessed with bows and all things girly. I started to make bows just for fun which turned into a passion. I have loved creating something that is my own. From picking fabric colors and designs to creating different styled bows. It genuinely makes me happy. I have now branched into making my own clothing, glass cups and hats. I was originally purchasing wholesale but I have started to make my own designs and purchase less wholesale items. When most people look at my business they think it’s just for babies or young children. I actually carry a wide variety of products. Sizes range from newborn all the way up to adult sizes. Also, available for boys, girls, men and women. As time has gone on I have wanted to expand my reach. That being said, the more I grow, the more items I will be adding so everyone can enjoy them. I know a lot of boutiques are priced on the higher end. I try my best to price my items lower so they are more affordable for everyone. I also offer discount codes and run sales often. I am very excited to see what the next year holds and even what the next 5 years hold. I would love to accomplish everything I have in mind overnight but I have realized that’s not reality, even small growth is still growth. To put it short and sweet, nothing about owning a business is easy, it is not a simple task but I will say it is 110% worth it. Knowing that I created my business and people want to purchase what I have is the most rewarding and gives me an indescribable happy feeling. I have overcome a lot of hardships just from simply giving things time. Learning to slow down and not try to rush through the days, each day is a new lesson that will set me up for a bigger accomplishment tomorrow. I want people to know that I am doing the best I can, that behind my business is a family, a mom, and an actual individual doing everything on my own. I am proud of what I have accomplished and can’t wait to see what the future holds.

Are there any apps, books, podcasts, blogs or other resources you think our readers should check out?
I get a lot of inspiration from other creators online. I do a majority of my research on Instagram and TikTok. It is very inspiring to see a business that was once small and brand new turning into a successful business.

Contact Info:

• Website: http://happydaybowtique.myshopify.com/
• Instagram: https://instagram.com/happyday.bowtique?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/happyday.bowtique?mibextid=LQQJ4d
• Other: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyday.bowtique?_t=8lggkizlmk2&_r=1