We wake up, get work, go back home and rinse and repeat – or at least it feels that way sometimes. In truth, there are a million moments in between where we interact with others and we can’t help but wonder what folks will think about us once we aren’t showing up, perhaps once we are gone. Some very thoughtful members of the community share their thoughts on this with us below.
Courtnee Maxey
That I did it my way. Boldly, creatively, and without permission. That I took what I had, even when it wasn’t much, and turned it into something unforgettable. That I showed up with heart, with vision, and with fire and that I poured all of that into everything I created. I want people to say I made things that felt different. Read more>>
Adanna Bernard
When I’m gone, I hope people tell the story of a woman who refused to stay silent in the face of lies, betrayal, and manipulation. A woman who walked through the fire of her wounds and turned them into wisdom. A woman who saw through illusions and taught others how to reclaim their truth, their energy, and their power. Read more>>
Dashea Farber-Socolof
I hope people say I lived with integrity, passion, and love—that I made them feel seen, cared for, and more confident in who they are. I want to be remembered as someone who brought light and energy into every space, who stood for honesty and loyalty, and who created something beautiful through Tanique that went beyond tanning. Read more>>
Aisha Byrd
I hope people will say that I lived with GRIT ‘Growth, Resilience, Instinct, Tenacity’. I took my love for my dogs and turned it into something bigger—a business that not only created healthy treats, but also build community and give back to families in need. Read more>>
Elisabeth Reid
I hope that I’m remembered by my generosity and service of others. I’m still growing in both, but I want to live a life that impacts others positively. I want to spread kindness. I want to minister to people. I want people to know that they are loved and that they have a purpose. Read more>>
Natalie Nichole
I would want people to say that I worked hard and did everything I possibly could to evolve and make the most of every gift God gave me. That I tried, I loved, I failed—but I also won. I hope people say I stayed the course, no matter how long it took or how hard it got. Read more>>
Rita Stevens
Hope begins within. The beautiful thing about it is that no one can give it to you—and no one can take it away. Hope is a choice you make, regardless of what you see or feel. It costs nothing to hope, but the absence of it can cost you everything. Never be afraid to hope for more, to dream for more, and to expect more. Read more>>
Walter Bruce
The story I hope lives on is of a servant leader who understood that true leadership means empowering others with kindness and generosity. I hope I am remembered as someone who walked alongside them with the heart of a kingdom man, leading not for personal glory but for God’s glory reflected in others. Read more>>
Porchia James
I hope people say that I used my gifts to transform lives, whether it was restoring someone’s smile, mentoring the next generation of doctors, or simply showing up fully as a wife, mom, and friend. Read more>>
Marie Malone
I hope the story people tell about me when I’m gone is that I always made them feel that they could be themselves with me without judgement. That being around me filled them up and that my energy was somehow healing. I hope people will say that they felt safe and loved. Read more>>
Karen La Beau
I hope people say I lived a life rooted in creativity, culture, and connection. I used my art, my words, and my kitchen to preserve the beauty family traditions and recipes. Read more>>
Jeremiah Woodard
I would hope people will say that I would always do my best to help anyone. Doesn’t matter what it is. Whether it is promoting a business or just having a genuine conversation. There’s no greater feeling than helping someone, it feels ethereal in a way. I feel like people don’t realize it, but that is one of the greatest feelings of all time. Read more>>
Demetris Elia
I’m hoping people say that I was net positive to society. I always try to educate and help individuals in any way that I can. Whether it’s business related or just life. I think being in the position to help someone is a privilage and a responsibility. If we all help eachother improve day to day, the world would be a better place. Read more>>
Madelyn Bass
The story you hope people tell about me when I’m gone is, that I was someone who truly cared—who used my gifts and my business not just to build success for myself, but to open doors for others. Read more>>
